On the marriage market, a 50 year old man (whose wife statistically is three years younger, so 47), divorced, separated (or not!) usually opts for a woman 6 years younger (in the West). See the article "women age alone, men in couple and the peak of the menopause in the occurence of separation". That is to say that 70% of men 50 (magnets, happy, good fathers and good husbands etc...) which are separated from their wives 47 years old (better, children are adults) found a new couple with a newer one. The gap in the Middle East is even more important (8 years at the wedding, 10 to 15 years during the second "conjugal".) Older they are, younger they choose their "new" women (that means whose gap age with them is bigger.) Search more easier (in case there is a separation or divorce) because the gap revenues is constant in favor of men.
It's exactly what happens to
me that I have discovered last week in Paris where I was not returned for a long time.. It is comforting to be smack in the
statistical standards in a sense! Sociology, there is nothing else real !
Durkheim I love you!
My sadness and mad fury (my animal desire to slaughter, to
disembowel him and his "pouffiasse") has disapeared immediatly. No
blame, for him ("a damned bastard, a junk, a son of a bitch, an ass
fucker.." as I said, and worse again) and for me (a shrew who has never cooked, cleaned
house, received his family, friends and colleges gently as I had to do for him
and so on.) Just statistics.. and menopause. Even he was nice because mine was
very early, 43, (on this point, I was not in the statistics !) but without any
problems; (apparent).. except less sexual desire for him because he was rarely
present and I can’t desire an man as a machine, in 5 seconds stopwatch (as all
women). I wanted him to leave his work and every time he answered "yes,
later", I replied he had to choose, "his job or his wife", "yes,
later" and that's all. So I have lost my husband and, as statistics say, I
shall age alone and him with his Catherine all the time smiling, 13 years
younger than him (and 10 than me) and not too brilliant. Perhaps she relies him
because I was tiring woman -the rest of the warrior-?) We are programmed
machines. It makes modest. A nice guy nevertheless. Loneliness may be is a good
thing, more time to act, to read, to write, to paint.
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